Good things come in small packages! In 2020 and 2021, that saying definitely holds true for weddings. With social distancing, new requirements, and the general chaos of life at this point in time, more people than ever are opting for smaller celebrations. There’s even an official name for them: micro-weddings and minimonies. What are the perks? Smaller weddings are often more intimate, less expensive, and less stressful to plan.
From the color schemes to the guest list and the choice of vendors, you can make a wedding of any size match the celebration of your dreams. But each of those decisions will be affected by how small or large your wedding is, so it can definitely be useful to approach planning with a “micro wedding” mindset.
Don’t worry: we have tips on hand to help you do just that. Our friends at Zola are true wedding experts, and they’ve created tailored advice to help future brides and grooms plan perfect micro-weddings. They know smaller ceremonies inside and out, so you can take advantage of their expertise to plan your own big day on a small scale. Check out the post below for new micro-wedding terms, venue recommendations, and a whole bunch of planning advice!
Micro weddings are quite literally smaller versions of traditional weddings, meant for 50 people or fewer. The event timeline will start with the ceremony, followed by a cocktail hour and reception, and will include all of the traditions that are important to the couple. Micro weddings are a favorite for many couples who had to rethink their original wedding plans due to COVID-19. This option allows them to protect the health of their loved ones and have a small version of the wedding that they planned.
Real Couples: “We both feel like we got all of the best parts of a wedding ceremony and reception without all the stress and excessive cost. If we could do it all over again, pandemic or no, we would opt for the intimacy of the smaller ceremony.” – Robert and Carly
As more couples host micro weddings, the benefits of having this type of event, pandemic or not, are more apparent. With fewer people comes a lower cost, simplified logistics, and more time spent with each guest. If you and your partner are planning a micro wedding, use these tips to turn it into the day of your dreams.
If a micro wedding doesn’t sound like a good fit, check out these other options for having a smaller wedding.
Minimonies are small gatherings of 10 people or fewer including a photographer and officiant. Due to social distancing measures, thousands of couples have opted for this type of ceremony instead of canceling their weddings altogether. The size and intimacy of minimonies make them the perfect way to honor your wedding date and keep your friends and family safe.
To host a minimony, gather an officiant, photographer, and your closest loved ones, such as parents, siblings, or best friends, and head to a ceremony location. This can be on the beach or in your backyard, as long as it feels special. Once you’re there, exchange your vows, take photos, and soak in every second of this special moment with your partner and loved ones. If you still want to celebrate with friends and family at a later date, sequel weddings are a great way to have the best of both worlds.
Real Couples: “Our beach ceremony was intimate, meaningful, and low stress. Our words were for one another, without distraction. My memory is filled with my beloved, our children, the sea, snow-clad mountains in the distance, and our beautiful circle on the beach.” – Stacy and Markus
Sequel weddings are large celebrations in honor of a newly wedded couple. When a couple elopes or hosts a minimony, they can throw a sequel wedding at a later date. These events can take place one week, one month, or even several years after a couple officially ties the knot.
Your sequel wedding can be similar to a traditional wedding reception or it could be completely unique to you and your spouse. Choose a venue large enough to host your guests and decide on your timeline.
When you think of elopements, images of couples running to city hall or heading to a dreamy mountaintop pass through your mind. While these options are romantic and beautiful, there are so many other ways to celebrate your union with an elopement.
Elopements are intimate unions, typically between the couple, an officiant, and a witness. If you and your partner want to get married quickly or just prefer to share this special moment in private, this might be the best choice for you.
Real Couples: “The biggest benefit of an elopement to me is that I’ve really been able to take back my wedding day! Even with a small wedding, others wanted to have a say in how things were planned or who was invited. Now that it’s just going to be the two of us and we can really do whatever we want. I’m looking forward to having our special day is just about us and the commitment we’re making to one another, which is what a wedding should be about in the first place!” – Kim Hefner
If you’re looking for a way to celebrate while social distancing or you just want an intimate celebration, use this flowchart to help you decide which ceremony is best for you. Sit down with your partner and ask each other these questions to make sure your goals are the same.
Whether the pandemic changed your plans or you want to host an intimate event, micro weddings, minimonies, and elopements will be just as magical (maybe more) than a large event. Send wedding invitations to your loved ones and get ready to have the intimate wedding that both of you will remember for the rest of your lives.
Thanks to Zola for collaborating on this post and providing images and content.